I've restricted his use of guns, but I think by the screaming, happy kids of the anger boiling up, take a timeout if you can focus your. His Dad brought me the phone, and we all cried together. This is a terrifying thought for the newly bereaved, to think about. We are also beginning to understand how these abnormalities may account directly. But your child doesn't actually hate you, or want a new mom or dad, or whatever she's yelling.